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09
OCT
2012

The Tie/Pocket Square Dilemma

We’re living in well-dressed times. More than any time in the past decade, men have lately been taking more pride in their appearance and the image it projects. While it’s important to have some natural ability in matters of attire, it’s equally (if not more) important to learn the rules of clothing so as to manipulate them and, eventually, tastefully break them. The first concept where men can generally use some guidance is coordinating a tie and pocket square.

Coordinating Pocket Squares with Ties

First and foremost, note usage of the word “coordinate” as opposed to “match.” To match your tie to your pocket square is poor form for a couple of reasons. For starters, it draws the viewer’s eye horizontally across your chest and takes attention away from your face, which does you no favors at all.

Secondly, it lacks sophistication. Certain things make sense to be sold in pairs: shoes, socks, cufflinks, gloves. Ties and pocket squares, on the other hand, should be sold separately. Anyone selling them in matching sets is a clothier of dubious distinction and is not to be trusted, much less supported with your business.

Successful coordination between ties and hankies isn’t all that difficult if you think  both in terms of color and pattern. For example, let’s say you’re wearing a red/blue striped tie. If you’d like to coordinate the stripes, wear a handkerchief with blue/white stripes or a plaid, as the straight lines of the plaid sync up nicely with those of the striped tie. If you’d like to focus on color, you can do solid red, solid blue, blue with red dots, red with blue paisley, etc.

Blue and red pocket square - henry davidsen

As you get a bit more advanced, you can start playing with complementary colors: that same red/blue tie can take a purple pocket square, for example, because blue and red make purple. For more insight on this, all you have to do is remember your primary (red, blue, and yellow) and secondary colors (orange, purple, and green). Most of these colors will play nicely with the others, depending on shade.

Pocket Square Rule of Thumb

As a guideline, remember that a white pocket square goes with anything, and with semi-formal and formal wear should be worn exclusively. Finally, keep in mind the Rule of Two, oft-stated as “one for blowin’, one for showin’.” The idea here is that a gentleman has two handkerchiefs at all times: one for show in his breast pocket, and one in his back pocket should he or someone else need it to clean up a spill, wipe away sweat, and even serve as a makeshift tissue. This only works with cotton or linen squares, but try it out: next time a lady spills her drink next to you at the bar, you won’t have to frantically search for napkins.

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  1. Daniel Reply

    I discovered the “Rule of Two” on my own, figuring of I really wanted to lend someone my square to blow her nose in, I wouldn’t want it to take away from my calculated appearance, so I always carry two now. I even carry one in my back pocket when not dressed up. I’m just beginning to spread my style wings, and look to classics for guidance: Casablanca, Breakfast at Tiffany’s, James Bond, The Untouchables, etc.

    I appreciate that you go into *why* not to wear matching tie/square. Most other websites don’t explain, and that’s unsatisfactory to me. I’ve been guilty of it, but no more. Thanks!

  2. Laurence Reply

    What about a striped green tie worn with a glen plaid (green/blue) pocket square ? Do these clash ?

    • Brian Reply

      Laurence –

      These won’t clash as long as the greens are of similar shade and the major color in the one piece is the minor color in the other piece. In general, if when looking in the mirror it feels like there is too much pattern or busy-ness happening, then better to simplify the look that try to overcomplicate it. Too much can become a distraction.

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